Just weeks ago, after the U.S. military seized a ship in the Strait of Hormuz, President Trump said he suspected that the Chinese government was attempting to sneak a “gift” past America’s blockade and into the hands of Iran.
“I thought I had an understanding with President Xi,” Mr. Trump said in an interview with CNBC, calling himself “surprised.” He added: “But that’s all right. That’s the way war goes, right?”
China has rejected Mr. Trump’s accusation. But the incident underscores the uneasy nature of the relationship between Mr. Trump and Mr. Xi as the American president arrives in Beijing for a summit between two of the world’s most powerful men.
Mr. Trump, who has long wanted to court relationships with the world’s strongmen, has cultivated what he describes as a friendship with Mr. Xi, referring to China’s leader as “a brilliant leader.”
“He’s a wonderful guy,” Mr. Trump said this week before departing for Beijing. “He’s a friend of mine.”
Mr. Xi, in turn, has flattered Mr. Trump with ceremony on a scale rarely afforded foreign leaders, turning a state visit during his first term into a theatrical display of pomp and symbolism. On Wednesday, Mr. Trump was greeted by a military honor guard as well as men and women dressed in blue and white waving Chinese and American flags.
But beneath the public displays of warmth, the two men are at the center of the most consequential geopolitical rivalry of the 21st century. Their relationship is marked just as much by mistrust and confrontation as it is niceties.
For each public compliment, there is another maneuver in a trade war between the two countries. For each assertion of deep friendship, there is an uneasiness about the other’s military ambitions. For each attempt at flattery, there is an accompanying suspicion.
“Xi Jinping is not somebody who’s very sentimental about personal relationships, even inside his inner circle, never mind with what he sees as the leader of his main geopolitical foe,” said Jonathan A. Czin, the chairman of foreign policy studies at the Brookings Institution. “He purged the most senior leader of the military this winter. If he’s willing to get rid of a guy like that, that he’s known for decades and has a deep relationship with, I think it’s very instructive about how he approaches a guy like Trump.”
The relationship between Mr. Trump and Mr. Xi has had its ups and downs since the American president’s first term. There is rarely an interaction without some surprises.
The two men first met at Mr. Trump’s Mar-a-Lago resort in 2017. Mr. Trump greeted Mr. Xi with a military honor guard and a lavish dinner.
While they were enjoying what Mr. Trump called “the most beautiful piece of chocolate cake that you’ve ever seen,” the American president informed Mr. Xi that the United States had launched missile strikes against Syria in response to President Bashar al-Assad’s chemical weapons attack in the Syrian civil war.
If the announcement was meant to catch the Chinese president off guard, Mr. Xi appeared unfazed.
“We are so used to thinking of Trump as being very idiosyncratic, very different from his predecessors,” Mr. Czin said. “But from a Chinese perspective, this looks very similar to President Obama’s intervention in Libya and President Bush’s intervention in Iraq. This is just the United States doing in a more intense way what it’s done for most of the century.”
Mr. Trump emerged from that meeting claiming they had developed “great chemistry.”
Months later, Mr. Xi returned the favor with an extravagant state visit to Beijing unlike any reception afforded to Mr. Trump’s recent predecessors.
During what Chinese officials called a “state visit-plus,” Mr. Trump toured the Forbidden City in a highly symbolic gesture emphasizing imperial grandeur and historic continuity. The two men strolled through ancient palace courtyards as television cameras followed closely behind.
Chinese officials arranged a private opera performance and seated Mr. Trump beside Mr. Xi in a setting meant to project intimacy and prestige.
During that trip, Mr. Trump said he gave China “great credit” for taking advantage of the United States on trade.
“I don’t blame China,” he said. “After all, who can blame a country for being able to take advantage of another country for the benefit of its citizens?”
Rush Doshi, a researcher at Georgetown University and at the Council on Foreign Relations, said it was important for both leaders to exit any negotiations in a manner that saved face for themselves and their countries. That is why Mr. Trump has often praised China’s actions, even if they are hostile to America’s interests.
“His general impulse is to say, in effect: ‘I am a worldly pragmatist who understands that what they’ve done isn’t personal against me. It’s just business,’” Mr. Doshi said. “That’s the way in which he downplays these significantly escalatory acts.”
Mr. Trump arrived in China on Wednesday, and he departs Friday. Anna Kelly, a White House spokeswoman, said that there would again be moments of great symbolism on the trip but that Mr. Trump would also return with economic deals beneficial to Americans.
“This will be a visit of tremendous symbolic significance,” Ms. Kelly said. “But of course, President Trump never travels for symbolism alone. The American people can expect the president to deliver more good deals on behalf of our country. These agreements will further rebalance trade with China while putting American workers, farmers and families first and safeguarding U.S. economic strength in national security.”
The relationship between the two men has grown more tense. Mr. Trump’s trip was initially delayed because of his war against Iran, a major supplier of oil to China.
Since his first meeting with Mr. Trump, Mr. Xi has expressed more warmth for President Vladimir V. Putin of Russia, calling him my “best and bosom friend,” and recently the Chinese president criticized Mr. Trump, though not by name, for flouting international law and returning “to the law of the jungle.”
And Mr. Trump’s return to office brought an intensely confrontational economic agenda toward China, reviving tensions between the world’s two largest economies.
Within months of taking office, Mr. Trump imposed sweeping new tariffs on imports from a wide range of countries, with China receiving some of the harshest. Despite the aggressive talk, both governments eventually moved toward negotiations.
Tariffs are expected to be a major topic on the agenda this week.
Perhaps at no point were the personal tensions on greater display than last year when Mr. Xi signaled that he was shoring up his own alliances against American interests when he hosted the leaders of Russia and North Korea for a military parade.
Mr. Trump addressed Mr. Xi in a comment about it on social media, which read in part, “Please give my warmest regards to Vladimir Putin, and Kim Jong Un, as you conspire against The United States of America.”
In remarks in the Oval Office, Mr. Trump took pains to brush off the striking show of solidarity among America’s adversaries. He praised the parade as “beautiful,” and “very, very impressive.”
“I understood the reason they were doing it, and they were hoping I was watching, and I was watching,” Mr. Trump told reporters. “My relationship with all of them is very good.”
Melanie Hart, the senior director of the Atlantic Council’s Global China Hub, called Mr. Trump’s reaction to the gathering “the most public expression of FOMO” — fear of missing out — “we’ve ever seen from a U.S. president.”
“Trump seems to think he can charm Xi Jinping,” she said. “But Xi is not a relationship guy. Xi really looks at the United States as China’s main rival at a systemic level. Trump really wants Xi Jinping to like him, and Xi couldn’t care less.”
Even so, Mr. Trump expects to be greeted in Beijing with great fanfare, and hopes to return the favor for Mr. Xi when the Chinese leader visits Washington later this year.
The American president said he hopes to show off a renovated Lincoln Memorial Reflecting Pool to Mr. Xi. But he expressed disappointment that his signature project, a ballroom attached to the White House, will not be built in time for a lavish welcome.
“I only wish we had the ballroom finished,” Mr. Trump said before departing for China.
